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The Muscle I’m Trying to Build
Because understanding it doesn’t always mean I’m done feeling it. “Some days, I feel like I’m in the gym emotionally, trying to exercise muscles I didn’t even know existed.” I’ve been realizing lately that I’m an incredibly impatient healer. Not impatient with people. Impatient with pain. Impatient with uncertainty. Impatient with discomfort. If I understand…
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Defining Myself Beyond Gender Norms
Trigger Warning: Discussions of sexual abuse and its effects It’s been a while, but life has been life-ing, lol. A few months ago, my sister and I were having a conversation about our family dynamic—the uniqueness of our siblings, our similarities, our differences, all that good stuff. At one point, she said something that caught…
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Why did I get married?
In my journey towards marriage, I found myself grappling with deeply ingrained societal and religious norms, questioning traditional views on commitment, and ultimately redefining my understanding of partnership. As I reflect on this decision, I delve into the complexities of navigating my conflicting beliefs and evolving perspectives, shedding light on the transformative process of redefining…
Unfiltered thoughts on personal growth, self-reflection, and intentional relationships
Changing Perspectives 