Changing Perspectives

Tag: personal-growth

  • When Healing Changes the Questions

    When Healing Changes the Questions

    Sometimes healing doesn’t change the people around us—it changes the questions we ask. This reflection invites readers to explore self-awareness, boundaries, and whether they’re experiencing love, care, and connection in the way they genuinely need.

  • Defining Myself Beyond Gender Norms

    Trigger Warning: Discussions of sexual abuse and its effects It’s been a while, but life has been life-ing, lol. A few months ago, my sister and I were having a conversation about our family dynamic—the uniqueness of our siblings, our similarities, our differences, all that good stuff. At one point, she said something that caught…

  • Why did I get married?

    In my journey towards marriage, I found myself grappling with deeply ingrained societal and religious norms, questioning traditional views on commitment, and ultimately redefining my understanding of partnership. As I reflect on this decision, I delve into the complexities of navigating my conflicting beliefs and evolving perspectives, shedding light on the transformative process of redefining…

  • The Delusion of Contentment

    Isn’t it curious how effortlessly we deceive ourselves, weaving intricate narratives to convince us of our supposed contentment with life’s circumstances? I’m generalising, but is it just me? It’s not necessarily a conscious act to deceive yourself about the true state of life in that moment, but rather a default mechanism utilised to make your…

  • I’m just here for moral support…

    Support The Importance of Support Studies have shown that support is vital to the emotional well-being of an individual, providing a foundation of love and encouragement that fosters happiness and reduces stress. Yet, when support is lacking, feelings of isolation and low self-esteem can take root, casting a shadow over even the brightest moments of…

  • Can I ask you a quick question about love?

    The other day, I was approached with a question that caught me off guard: “What relationship advice would you give me?” It came from a young adult who seemed to be reveling in the honeymoon phase of their relationship. At first, I couldn’t help but wonder, who am I to dispense relationship advice? Yet, with…