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I’m Tired of Earning Love
#beingwanted, #bodythatkeepsscore, #desire, #emotionalengagement, #emotionalintimacy, #energeticexchange, #ImTiredOfEarningLove #ChangingPerspectives #SelfWorth #HealingJourney #EmotionalSafety #Relationships #LoveAndRelationships #AttachmentStyle #AnxiousAttachment #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery #Vulnera, #intimacy switch, #lonelinessinintimacy, #participationnotobservation
“I used to think love was measured by how much I was willing to carry. Now I’m learning to ask a different question: Does this love also know how to carry me?” I think I’ve spent a lot of my life trying to earn love. Not intentionally. Not consciously. But in the little ways. By…
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What if our deepest desire isn’t to be attractive, but to be chosen? A personal reflection on trauma, self-worth, and learning to rewrite the stories I’ve carried about myself.
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The Intimacy Switch: Why I Need Desire to Meet Me, Not Just See Me?
#beingwanted, #bodythatkeepsscore, #desire, #emotionalengagement, #emotionalintimacy, #energeticexchange, #intimacy switch, #lonelinessinintimacy, #participationnotobservation, #reconciliation, #responsivedesire, #selfdiscovery, #selfreflection, #vulnerability, Love, Mental Health, Relationships, sex, writingThe body that keeps score taught me how not to disappear when love arrives. I spent years searching for desire. Now at 30, I’m learning how not to lose myself when it finds me. Some of us don’t learn how to love by being met. We learn by reaching, and reaching again, into empty air.…
Changing Perspectives 