Tag: family dynamics

  • Defining Myself Beyond Gender Norms

    Trigger Warning: Discussions of sexual abuse and its effects It’s been a while, but life has been life-ing, lol. A few months ago, my sister and I were having a conversation about our family dynamic—the uniqueness of our siblings, our similarities, our differences, all that good stuff. At one point, she said something that caught…

  • Why did I get married?

    In my journey towards marriage, I found myself grappling with deeply ingrained societal and religious norms, questioning traditional views on commitment, and ultimately redefining my understanding of partnership. As I reflect on this decision, I delve into the complexities of navigating my conflicting beliefs and evolving perspectives, shedding light on the transformative process of redefining…

  • I’m just here for moral support…

    Support The Importance of Support Studies have shown that support is vital to the emotional well-being of an individual, providing a foundation of love and encouragement that fosters happiness and reduces stress. Yet, when support is lacking, feelings of isolation and low self-esteem can take root, casting a shadow over even the brightest moments of…

  • Fragments of Belonging: Eliminating the Facade

    Fragments of Belonging: Eliminating the Facade

    As I reflect on my my life, even to this day, I struggle with the theme of belongingness as this stands out as a pivotal aspect of my lived experiences. Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs helps me frame this exploration, which highlights the innate human desire for connection. Through my own experience of family dynamics, resilience,…